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When I Laughed Out Loud

Last week I met a man I’ve known for many years.  He’s someone whose voice and laugh I could recognize even in a loud crowded room because I heard it just about every day for well over a decade while commuting to and from Hofstra University, St. John’s Law School and my first couple of jobs after graduation.  He’s also the guy who I think was the catalyst or inspiration behind the creation of the acronym “LOL” because day after day after day as I listened to him and his cohorts on the radio, I found myself literally laughing out loud at the off color and sometimes filthy but hysterical jokes, bits and stories.  But I didn’t feel like I was just listening to a radio show, for that hour or so while I was driving in my Datsun 280ZX, I was right there in the studio with them.  I knew these people…I knew their talents, their flaws, their vulnerabilities and the things about them that everyone else made fun of.  Their personal lives were completely exposed and nothing was sacred. We all knew where they grew up, what their families were like, what they did over the weekend, and of course we learned about everyone’s eating and bathroom habits and their sexual experiences. It was reality radio, the precursor to reality television.
So when I met Jackie “The Joke Man” Martling (head writer for the Howard Stern Show for as long as I can remember) at The Space in Westbury, NY the other day, I felt compelled to walk over to him, put my arm around his neck and say “Jackie…I want to thank you…I want to thank you for making all those long and tedious years of driving on the Long Island Expressway and Northern State Parkway not just tolerable but incredibly enjoyable and memorable.”  “I also want to thank you for sharing your extraordinary gift of humor, laughter and amusement with me and millions of other people.” “You gave us the opportunity to escape from reality while we were held hostage in our cars.” 

Jackie turned to me with a slight grin on his face and said quietly “That was so sweet…Thank you for telling me that…It means a lot to me.”  We shared a beautiful moment.

Jackie and I became instant friends and we’re now in the process of developing a Long Island television show that will be filmed in front of a live audience.  We’re slotted to be co-hosts of the show.  It’s magic in the making so stay tuned!  

And BTW, “F” Jackie!

http://www.JokeLand.com                                         
@JackieMartling                                                      
“Jackie’s Joke Hunt” on SiriusXM  Howard 101

Sat. October 19th,  Jackie “The Joke Man” Martling appearing at the Great Neck Arts Center.

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I'm Going To Have FUN Even If It Kills Me!

We're all guilty...and some of us more than others.  We focus our lives on all the things we're supposed to be doing, like taking care of everyone and everything around us, i.e. kids, spouse, animals, job, etc., and we forget about the things we want to do.  
When did we stop going to our playground? At what age did our "fun" die?


FUN...According to Susan Biali, MD it means "anything that connects us with our childlike energy and joy".  Dictionary.com defines "fun" as "something that provides mirth (gaiety or jollity, especially when accompanied by laughter) or amusement".    
Picture of fun.


We've all heard that all work and no play made Jack a dull boy but did you know that life without fun and games isn't just dull, it's down right unhealthy. Research shows that "playing" has incredible health benefits.  Playing and having fun helps us blow off steam, deal with stress, learn, experiment, and be a more social person, among many other benefits.  Recent Japanese research found that spending as little as 2 hours a month laughing or listening to your favorite music has as big an impact on your blood pressure as eliminating salty foods or even losing 10 pounds!  


If you can’t remember the last time you had some real honest to goodness FUN, tap into your Fun Zone by trying some of these.
  • Put on some loud music that makes you feel like you’re back in high school and “Just Dance!” (if you’re in high school…well you’re probably still having fun and good for you!)  
  •  Do something spontaneous and out of your ordinary (keeping it legal and moral, of course) 
  •  Go out and play with your friends (if it’s a nice day, go outside a throw a Frisbee, have a catch, go bike riding, go to the toy store and pick up some classic toys like a jump roll, hula hoop, “Skip It”, Chinese jump rope, kick ball, water balloons, and the like) 
  • Paint, write, draw or do anything creative 
  •  Learn some jokes and share them with your friends (they will probably be even funnier and perhaps more memorable if you botch the punch lines)
  • Get dirty (this one is subject to your own personal interpretation; the original thought was dirt...)  
Thank you for visiting with us.

Lidia 

Lidia Szczepanowski, Esq.


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